Dating tips for 11 year old boys
That way they could size up the boy, run their mental lie detectors and let them know about my curfew for the evening. My dad managed not to have a heart attack, and I left for college with my hymen and self esteem intact. You have to go with your heart and whats important to you. have them at the house as much as possible so you can see how they get along and how much he respects her and her opinion.
I know that he respects her and will be a good husband because he is in it for the long haul. Perhaps you can talk to the boy's family and together come up with some agreed upon curfew times.
Should I allow her to go on a date alone or only with a group? Hi L.: Well, I've had alot of experience in this department. I could write a pretty funny book about the experiences. If you have an open relationship with her and she doesn't do anything to cause you to question her honesty,or integrety,then don't second guess her ability to make the right decisions. She knows that I am a bit more relaxed than her Dad is. We talk to them about what we don't want, ie, preganancy, STD's etc. We always keep the lines of communication open for her and her older brother. Does your daughter have good judgment and "know" what to do in case of emergency or if she does not want to do something that the others are doing? These are all scenarios that DOES happen a lot, and is common.
lol Not because I have daughters, because I have two sons. My four sisters and I about drove my daddy insane....trying to keep tabs on each of us when we started dating!! Daddy was extremely strict,and I suppose,all of us girls understood to a point as to why. I mean you can't really get to know someone,when your watching a movie,or swaping spit!! Anyway,my sisters and I had to become more creative. She will be 17 soon,and a year after she will be old enough to move out on her own. I do have a daughter who just turned 17 last week and her boyfriend of 6 months just turned 18. They are both seniors in High School and go to separate schools. She has a curfew on weeknights and an curfew on Weekends. She still has to follow the rules of the city and the city has a curfew for all children under 18. Some kids are also street-smart and others are not.
I have an 18 year old and at 17 she had her first "boyfriend" If you say NO on things she will start to lie to you. This is the age where it does happen and it will slip right between your fingers if you don not have a handle on it.
I found that I set the rules with both of them right away. I did a lot of things with them and let her have him come along places. My mother always taught me that freedom is given to those that earn it. I actually think this was a great idea because there was no pressure to go down the roads that lead to sex.