Life derek dating game part 1
I was at a Jamba Juice I always go to after the gym.
Season 2 opens with Derek asking Casey's best friend, Emily, out for a date, Casey has to wonder: Is he really interested in Emily, or is this some kind of revenge for "stealing" Sam?
Love Systems is famous for teaching men how to pick up women at bars and clubs.
Or at restaurants and coffee shops (aka “Day Game”).
Approach anxiety is a brick wall I hear about all the time that guys hit in game. And the type of woman who is attractive and has a lot of guys after her will usually approach even less.
It is not unnatural, it is completely normal, you are just passing through one of the stages that everyone who gets into game goes through. The # 1 reason we get approach anxiety is our ‘Fear of Rejection’. I’ll explain why…and then give you a big twist at the end…
A little while ago, I asked Derek Cajun, Love Systems CEO and top instructor, to put Love Systems to the test online.
Cajun was the natural choice for this, since he’s one of the most experienced Love Systems instructors.
From all the different backgrounds, skills and stories that every attendee has, the path inevitably leads to the same focal point: we admit that we want to be better with women.
His younger brother Edwin is his trusted accomplice and lackey.
For years, what Derek wanted, Edwin delivered, such as doing Derek's school projects.
Our minds tell us not to approach people we don’t know as it is outside of our comfort zones. But before we dive in, a quick HEADS-UP – if you’ve recently been through a breakup get the Breakup Survival Guide for Men immediately.
You have to realize that males are logical creatures (females are emotional), and that being the case, our mind will give us logical reasons not to approach to keep us safe, to keep us comfortable, and will put our comfort above our happiness. It’s not about being “strong” or “tough” – there are certain psychological and chemical processes that go on in a breakup.